Soulmates are Destined to be Together Wherever Life May Toss Them

Haba ng title noh? Napulot ko lang yan sa inbox ng Gmail ko.

How true is it (yung tiltle)? So it keeps me thinking...

Do all soulmates end up meeting each other in their lifetime? And in that lifetime, will they stay together?

Are soulmates really destined to be together wherever life may toss them? If yes, then how will you know if that destiny already began or when will that destiny happen? Can you simply tell? (someone uttered: "Destiny nga eh kaya di ka pa pinapanganak, nagsimula na!")

Can you really determine if he or she is the one?


Soulmate or soul mate defined (lovers' point of view):
(Thanks to dictionary.com and wikipedia)

(noun)
* a person with whom one has a strong affinity.
* One of two persons compatible with each other in disposition, point of view, or sensitivity.
* someone you love, and would do anything for, and someone who loves you, and would do anything for you. And in that love, nothing is required for either person, because everything is already given. You love them more than anything in the world and could not live without them. (this one is sweet!)

With that, another thought popped: Serendipity. Ewan ko ba. Somehow, you will find the relationship between them.

This is based on romance lang ha and not about any other science or history-based explanations. You may think about the movie Serendipity starring John Cusack and Kate Beckinsale.

The movie's plot:

On a bustling shopping day in winter, Jonathan meets Sara when both try to buy the same pair of gloves at Bloomingdale's department store. Two strangers amid the masses in New York City, their paths collide in the mad holiday rush as they feel a mutual attraction. Despite the fact that each is involved in another relationship, Jonathan and Sara spend the evening travelling Manhattan. But when the night reaches its inevitable end, the two are forced into determining some kind of next step. When the smitten Jonathan suggests an exchange of phone numbers, Sara balks and proposes an idea that will allow fate to take control of their future. If they are meant to be together, she tells him, they will find their way back into one another's life.

The majority of the film takes place seven years later, and consists largely of repeated "almost coincidences" where the two romantic leads almost, but not quite, meet. (One character is seen walking in to one door of a building at the exact same instant as the other character walks out of a different door in the same building, etc).

So serendipity is about accidental but fortunate discoveries, especially while looking for something else entirely. I begin to think how I met Rey... Hehehe. I wasn't looking for new love. Love found me when I did not expect it, when I did not think I can love again. (With this blog, I'm actually finding myself redundant of telling these things. Forgive me na lang, I am just thankful.)

Back to soulmates... Random thoughts lang 'to ha just because of this post's title na napulot ko lang nga.

"You are my soulmate." - Will you always tell these words to every person or partner you have loved (at true love's level ha)? Then you had more than one. Pwede ba yun? Pwede ba idepende ang soulmate branding sa change of heart? No way! But I don't know. At some point, you will realize na "I just thought so..." You can have many classmates, schoolmates, bedmates (oops... foul, rated "R"), room mates, house mates, table mates, and two spoonfuls of coffee mate but i think there is and there should be just ONE soulmate for you. And must be "one-is-to-one." Well, I think so. Even if some think that "there can be not just one specific person for anyone". Enough of thinking na lang nga! One thing for sure: I believe I found mine. :)